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Cheating Married Man - How You Can Identify One

By: Sally Webb

Sad but true, nearly 30% of married men are inside the category 'cheating married man'. It does not matter where these men look for their prey, they exist. This means if you are presently a single woman chances are quite good that you will cross path with one of them -- whether or not he is a sheep in wolf's clothing.
Another bad news is that women are very emotional being that many women are trapped in an emotional rut of being the third party. I said trapped because no woman intentionally has an affair with a cheating married man. Part of their conscious mind tells them that they should break it off but as you know, it is easier said than done.
So how can you avoid getting into this kind of unhealthy affair? You need to avoid even getting too close to a married man in the first place. This is important as a woman's logic is only intact in the early stage of a new relationship before completely replaced by helpless emotion. Some married men will try to hide their marital situation so let's just read on to find out how to spot a cheating married man from miles away.
Following are few warning signs to tell you that you are involved -- or about to be involved with a married man:
First of all you would notice that he doesn't like making plans in advance. This is because it is hard for a cheating married man to commit to plans made in advance. He would cover it up or make excuses saying that he is a flexible type of guy that he doesn't like to have a set timetable.
He seems to have little or no integrity as he often cancels in the last minute. You will start getting used to the fact that dates are not set in stones until after he shows up.
Dates are often on weekdays rather than the prime Friday or Saturday nights. He seems to be busy on the weekend as well as holidays such as Valentine's Day, Christmas, Easter etc. Yes he probably would make it up to you such as asking you out the day after the Valentine's Day to celebrate it late -- or early.
Whenever you call him he hardly answers although he would return your calls at a (much) later time. Even if he answers your calls his phone would suddenly dies or runs out of battery that he has to cut your conversation short. When he is actually with you, his phone often is simply turned off.
On top of all that, it seems that none of his friends or family actually know that your relationship exists. You probably don't even know his real address or work information -- depending on how comfortable he is in you knowing this information about him.
One last sign that you can be aware of in conjunction with all the other signs above is that a cheating married man can seem to be more understanding. He seems to never complain about you at all. He is also a sweet talker and therefore he seems to be sweet all the time. Fighting is out of the picture. Of course, he loves to get physical with you -- if it's not all the relationship is all about.
One last note, dating is a fun and wonderful experience to have. The risk of broken heart is always there whether or not you are dating a cheating married man. However, be aware that you are emotional by nature and it is completely unnecessary to take on a very high risk of getting your heart broken by going out with one of them. Stick with the available men out there.

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Sally Webb is the Founder of Cheating-Spouse-Alert.com. Visit her site for more advice on topics of both emotional and physical affairs from signs of cheating spouse to how to finding out. Also, read the article about cheating married man on will they ever leave their spouse.

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